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Swedish Sexual Consent Law For Vanillas to learn BDSM

Consent is one of the most vital pillars to a Sexual relationship, be it Vanilla or BDSM. If you were to explain consent to a 5-year-old and say that you should ask before you touch or intrude on someone’s personal space, they would deem it as an obvious code of conduct. But for some reason, the concept seems too difficult for grown-up and educated adults to understand. This could be because of the hyperactive libido but that is no justification. It is absolutely imperative for governments, in this case, to …
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Malesub Bondage Blog

Malesub Bondage – Everything you Need to Know

“Bow Down”, if you’re a veteran in BDSM play then this might give you a picture of a sensitive submissive female following the instruction of a dominant male. BDSM is a game of submissive dominance relationship, where mostly subs are female partners and doms are the malesub bondage. But one that you might not be aware of is that most males have sexual fetish of being dominated sexually by their partner. Yes, they can switch sides. What most people don’t know about submission is, whether it’s female or male, submissive …
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BDSM Contract Blog

Dominant Submissive Contract | A Real-Life BDSM Contract

So, you have decided that you are interested in exploring the world of Dominant/submissive (D/s) power dynamics. Congratulations! D/s can be an incredibly enriching, exciting, and beneficial way to add some spice to your sex life. However, before diving headfirst into this type of play, it’s important to sit down with your partner and discuss your boundaries, needs, and expectations. This is where a Dominant/submissive BDSM contract comes in. These contracts can add an extra level of excitement to your sex life, and can be a fun way to explore …
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Find The Dominant Partner You Desire | The Ultimate Guide

At first glance, a Dom and Sub relationship creates a picture of the movie “Fifty Shades of Grey” in your mind. But this is just the tip of the iceberg, there’s so much to discover more than ropes, cuffs, and role-play on the bed. So, is there anything more to a dom? If yes then how to find a dominant partner? A few years back, I accidentally crossed paths with my first dominant partner online. And honestly, I have learned some profound things about myself, sex, my body, and even …
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Objectification and Its Role within BDSM Relationships

Sexual Objectification is a term that you might have heard a lot but do you know that it can be played as a kink within any BDSM relationship? You might think of BDSM objectification as a negative term. While broadly it is like that, but within the Dominants/Submissives BDSM relationship it can be used as a kink. So widely, you can specify this sexual objectification as seeing your sexual partner as an object of sexual desire only.  In this regard, you are not really looking into their own individuality and …
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Coming out of the Closet – How to do it?

A closet is a lonely place, no one will accept you there. Coming out of the closet is important, or you’ll build a world that is full of hatred, unloved, and a creepy dark place. A closet is a very dark and creepy place where your demons hide. And the coming out process can be different for everyone because everyone is battling at different levels.  Self-love is important but it can be very hard when you hide your true self behind walls. Also, it’s very hard to love your partner …
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safeword basics Blog

SafeWords To Stay Safe And Sound During Sex

As much as people like to have risky and rough sex, having a Safeword has become quite essential and common in recent times. But what are safe words, why is it necessary to have Safe Words? Safe words can help you and your partner and be beneficial for both. They help you recognize boundaries and make sure you don’t push them. Safeword is typically used in a dominant and submissive setting during bondage. Bondage can involve some extreme sexual practices and items like Ben Wa Balls. However, every submissive roleplayer …
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Useless Assignments Blog

Ultimate Guide to Giving Your Submissive Partner Useless Assignments

Are you a Dominant Partner in a BDSM relationship? Then, training your Submissive companion can be a crucial step for smooth power exchange. Any kind of BDSM relationship rests upon this power exchange dynamic where the Submissive partner can serve their Dominant companion in a better way. On the other hand, the Dominant partners will also want to establish their power game over their Submissive partners. This is where Submissive assignments can be a good step to take, as this can reenergize your BDSM dynamic. So, what are these assignments? …
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Chemistry hormones of sex Blog

The Chemistry Hormones of Sex: Maximizing for Greater Pleasure

Chemicals and hormones are everywhere in your body. These tell your body what to do and when to do them. More precisely chemicals control the biochemistry of your body. We realized this and educated ourselves quite a few decades ago. We learned various facts throughout the years like how adrenaline helps us with our fight or flight response by heightening our awareness and how insulin regulates our metabolic system in school. However, one similar thing that we usually forget to get educated on is how these chemistry hormones work in …
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Kink and BDSM Blog

Navigating the World of Kink and BDSM | The Essentials

Do you like it when your partner spreads your legs, ties you with handcuffs, and ropes, talks dirty, and starts tingling your area 69 in different ways? If this has set you biting your lips and your hormones going fizzy, then you’re not alone. Humans also crave for best sex and are pretty kinky. If you take kink and BDSM pleasures seriously, the sky’s the limit for you. There are hundreds or thousands of kinks out there that can summon your horny devils to heat things inside your bedroom, just …
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From Blowjob to Worship Cock for Deep Compilation

It is a well-known fact that sex or the fourth base is not the ultimate holy grail of intimacy. The foreplay or the build-up to it is equally important in keeping the passion for sex alive when the time finally comes. A lot of couples struggle with monotonous & mechanical sex lives with little to look forward to. But what they forget along the way is that intimacy and excitement mean constantly making each other feel special, a balance of giving and taking as they say is what needs to …
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Bring Up Polyamory Blog

When Should I Bring Up Polyamory?

Exploration has been a virtue of humane kin ever since probably we have come into the holy existence. We have wondered about men and women going beyond the perceived normal that is why we bring up polyamory relationships. I have always been deeply intoxicated by them. I am guessing we all have. Isn’t that the case? When should I bring up Polyamory? The time I was thinking about how to bring up polyamory in my relationship. I talked to a friend. They suggested not ruining my perfectly healthy relationship. The …
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